Casey Parks with Sarah Neilson — 'Diary of a Misfit: A Memoir and a Mystery'

"A tantalizing blend of personal history and reportage. . . A brilliantly rendered and complex portrait of Southern life alongside a tender exploration of queer belonging." —Publishers Weekly


Third Place Books welcomes celebrated reporter Casey Parks to our Lake Forest Park store! Parks will be discussing her highly anticipated work of nonfiction Diary of a Misfit: A Memoir and A Mysterya stunning blend of memoir and journalistic investigation. Parks will be in conversation with local journalist Sarah Neilson. This event is free and open to the public. Registration is required in advance.

Copies of Diary of a Misfit will be available for purchase at the store. This event will include a public signing and time for audience Q&A. Sustain our author series by purchasing a copy of the featured book!

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About Diary of a Misfit. . .

Part memoir, part sweeping journalistic saga: As Casey Parks follows the mystery of a stranger's past, she is forced to reckon with her own sexuality, her fraught Southern identity, her tortured yet loving relationship with her mother, and the complicated role of faith in her life.

When Casey Parks came out as a lesbian in college back in 2002, she assumed her life in the South was over. Her mother shunned her, and her pastor asked God to kill her. But then Parks's grandmother, a stern conservative who grew up picking cotton, pulled her aside and revealed a startling secret. "I grew up across the street from a woman who lived as a man," and then implored Casey to find out what happened to him. Diary of a Misfit is the story of Parks's life-changing journey to unravel the mystery of Roy Hudgins, the small-town country singer from grandmother’s youth, all the while confronting ghosts of her own.

For ten years, Parks traveled back to rural Louisiana and knocked on strangers’ doors, dug through nursing home records, and doggedly searched for Roy’s own diaries, trying to uncover what Roy was like as a person—what he felt; what he thought; and how he grappled with his sense of otherness. With an enormous heart and an unstinting sense of vulnerability, Parks writes about finding oneself through someone else’s story, and about forging connections across the gulfs that divide us.

Praise for Diary of a Misfit. . .

"Parks' work of self-investigation is a fascinating, engrossing tale about identity and belonging"
Booklist (starred review)

"A beautifully written and deeply reported epic about what it means to be Southern, what it means to be queer, what it means to belong to a family. Casey Parks is a tender, brilliant storyteller. I was haunted and moved by this account of the different Americas she inhabits."
—Claire Dederer, author of Love and Trouble

"A tantalizing blend of personal history and reportage. . . A brilliantly rendered and complex portrait of Southern life alongside a tender exploration of queer belonging. Parks’s writing is a marvel to witness."
Publishers Weekly (starred review)

“Parks' engrossing book is an excavation—emotional, familial, spiritual, and perhaps above all else, regional. The Louisiana she can't leave behind—and one mysterious inhabitant in particular—haunt her early adulthood as she grapples with what it means to be a daughter, a writer, an outlier, and, in her own way, a believer.”
—Ariel Levy, author of The Rules Do Not Apply

Casey Parks is a reporter for The Washington Post who covers gender and family issues. She was previously a staff reporter at the Jackson (Miss.) Free Press and spent a decade at The Oregonian, where she wrote about race and LGBTQ+ issues and was a finalist for the Livingston Award. Her articles have appeared in The New York Times Magazine, The New Yorker, The Oxford American, ESPN, USA Today, and The Nation. A former Spencer Fellow at Columbia University, Parks was most recently awarded the 2021 J. Anthony Lukas Work-in-Progress Award for her work on Diary of a Misfit. Parks lives in Portland.      

Sarah Neilson is a Seattle-based freelance writer whose work appears in The Seattle Times, Shondaland, The Believer, LitHub, Catapult, and among others. She can be found on Twitter @sarahmariewrote.

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