A Strange Stirring: The Feminine Mystique and American Women at the Dawn of the 1960s (Paperback)

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In 1963, Betty Friedan unleashed a storm of controversy with her bestselling book, The Feminine Mystique. Hundreds of women wrote to her to say that the book had transformed, even saved, their lives. Nearly half a century later, many women still recall where they were when they first read it.

In A Strange Stirring, historian Stephanie Coontz examines the dawn of the 1960s, when the sexual revolution had barely begun, newspapers advertised for "perky, attractive gal typists," but married women were told to stay home, and husbands controlled almost every aspect of family life. Based on exhaustive research and interviews, and challenging both conservative and liberal myths about Friedan, A Strange Stirring brilliantly illuminates how a generation of women came to realize that their dissatisfaction with domestic life didn't't reflect their personal weakness but rather a social and political injustice.

About the Author

Stephanie Coontz is a member of the faculty of Evergreen State College in Olympia, Washington, and the director of research and public education at the Council on Contemporary Families.

Praise For…

“[An] excellent new social history of the impact of Betty Friedan's landmark book on American women.... Coontz is the rare social historian who knows how to weave meticulous research into a compelling narrative of our not-too-distant past.... A Strange Stirring is, in many ways, better than the original. Today the problem has been named, and A Strange Stirring offers poignant personal reactions, accessible history and present-day comparisons to give voice to the modern quest for gender equality.”

“[E]xcellent, eminently readable.... Coontz's ‘demystifying' of both the era and Friedan is an erudite, even-handed look at the explosive feminist undercurrents of the era.”

Louis Menand, The New Yorker
“[A] useful revisiting of Friedan's book.”

Bitch Magazine
“As the author of several books that challenge the accepted historical narrative of ‘traditional' families and institutions.... Coontz soberly checks facts, corrects misinformation, and fills in holes in the record. Most important, she shows how assumptions and misinformation about the past are used not only to paint a distorted picture of how things used to be, but to justify insidious policies and legislation like the Defense of Marriage Act. In her latest work...Coontz focuses on a book we've come to take for granted, arguing that it deserves a closer look.... [S]he not only explores the actual content of The Feminine Mystique (going well beyond the usual proclamations about its controversiality and importance), but insists that readers (and, presumably, feminists) figure out how to reconcile our idealized version of history with information that complicates it.”

Publishers Weekly
“This perceptive [and] engrossing...book provides welcome context and background to a still controversial bestseller that changed how women viewed themselves.”

“Coupling meticulous research with first-person interviews, Coontz challenges a number of Friedan's assumptions and exaggerations while also revisiting the climate in which the work appeared and giving voice to women for whom The Feminine Mystique was nothing short of a lifesaver.... As women continue to struggle with the effort to balance life and work, Coontz argues that The Feminine Mystique remains as relevant today as when it first appeared. In tracing the roots of current discontents, which Coontz dubs the ‘Supermom Mystique,' her book is no less required reading than Friedan's trailblazer.”

The Daily Beast, “This Week's Hot Reads”
“A thoughtful reappraisal of Betty Friedan's 1960s classic – and a meditation on the ever-evolving role of women in American society.”

Christine Whelan, HuffingtonPost

New York Times Book Review
“[A] timely contribution to the conversation about what constitutes progress for women (and for which women) in these days of mommy wars and mama grizzlies.... By considering The Feminine Mystique as one sturdy strand in the complex arguments we're engaged in to this day, Coontz does Friedan the tremendous favor of pulling her down from heaven and up from hell.... [I]t's a relief to have the level-headed Coontz providing perspective and taking Friedan's work and legacy for what it was: stirring, strange, complicated and crucial.”

A Strange Stirring gives voice to women whose lives were transformed by Friedan's book, but most compellingly, it sets the historical record straight as far as its impact on families.”

Wall Street Journal
“[S]ocial historian Stephanie Coontz...takes a fresh look at The Feminine Mystique by examining its effect on the book's original readers.... Ms. Coontz usefully debunks some of the myths that have grown up around The Feminine Mystique and Friedan.... [A]n illuminating analysis of the book that helped launch the movement that freed women to participate more fully in American society.”

Christie Hefner, former chairman and chief executive officer of Playboy Enterprises and longest serving female C.E.O. of a U.S. public company
“As was written about TheFeminine Mystique, A Strange Stirring is ‘a journalistic tour de force, combining scholarship, investigative reporting and a compelling personal voice.' Stephanie Coontz has made a significant contribution to our understanding of the most transformative movement of our lifetimes. Much of what Coontz reports regarding the prevailing ethos of the 1950s as a time of conformity, cultural conservatism and social repressiveness will be fascinating and eye-opening for younger readers. This book is a must read for men as well as for women. And the transformational desire for a work/family balance in life is now reflected not just by gender, but by generation, as both men and women ‘need to grow and fulfill their potentialities as human beings,' as Friedan wrote almost a half a century ago.”

Donna L. Franklin, author of Ensuring Inequality: The Structural Transformation of the African-American Family
“This book offers a nuanced perspective on the women's movement by ending the invisibility of African-American women.”

Nancy F. Cott, Trumbull Professor of American History, Harvard University
“Stephanie Coontz's new book takes you on an engrossing and enlightening tour of the past, with wisdom and meaning for the future.”

John Bradshaw, author of Reclaiming Virtue and the #1 New York Times bestsellers, Homecoming and Creating Love
“Stephanie Coontz continues to amaze me. In her new book, A Strange Stirring, she chronicles the untold story of some of America's greatest pioneers. This is a must read for all who care about our country's growth and maturity. We owe the women described here the same gratitude and respect given to Lewis and Clark and the others who carved out this great nation.”

Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love 
“Stephanie Coontz is not just one of the most important historians in America, she is also a personal hero of mine and a brilliant writer. This book—like all her books before it—has been a marvel and education for me to behold. I am awed by the scope of this research, of this thinking, and I am struck once more by how much there is learned (and taught) about the slow, stubborn advancement of women in America over the last one hundred years. I will keep A Strange Stirring in the forefront of my bookshelf forever.”

Library Journal
“Coontz recaptures the impact of Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique when it was published in 1963. Although Friedan claimed credit for initiating the modern feminist movement, Coontz places the book more dispassionately in its historical context as one of many factors working against entrenched gender roles. Still, Coontz demonstrates persuasively that women readers from many backgrounds found relief—some called it life-saving—in knowing that they were not crazy and not alone in their need to find some work independent of their family roles.”

Kirkus Reviews
“A sharp revisiting of the generation that was floored by Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique (1963), and how the book is still relevant today.... A valuable education for women and men.”

Daniel Horowitz, author of Betty Friedan and the Making of The Feminine Mystique
It Changed My Life was the title of the book Betty Friedan wrote after her transformative 1963 The Feminine Mystique. And change she did the lives of American women. Now in her biography of a classic, Stephanie Coontz imaginatively explores the impact of Friedan's book. Weaving a rich fabric from what women said in letters and interviews, from articles in popular magazines, current scholarship, and her own astute reading of the 1963 work, Coontz compellingly reveals how generations of women—from the flappers of the 1920s to the bloggers and helicopter moms of today—have responded to the challenges modern women face.”

Product Details
ISBN: 9780465028429
ISBN-10: 046502842X
Publisher: Basic Books
Publication Date: March 6th, 2012
Pages: 256
Language: English